Love always has certain effects on many aspects of life. When entering the university’s lecture hall, students must face a lot of strange and complicated things in their new lives. Obviously, many problems greatly affect their lives and study. One of the most prominent and controversial issues is love. Some people think that it brings a lot of benefits to students while other people believe students struggle with a lot of trouble when falling in love. Love, in fact, comes with both negative and positive influences.
Negative things can happen when those involved are not mature enough to be aware or well-behaved in love. Instead of loving and encouraging each other in studying, many couples get into things like an unwanted pregnancy. Sometimes they feel angry and jealous. Consequently, they may lose faith in life and their future, which directly affects their learning results. When their love is broken, students are clinging to sadness, losing their appetite and even their sleep. This results in neglect in their studies. As a result, students easily lose control in life and also lose themselves because they are immersed in the bitter taste of love. Some of them even fall in love quickly for revenge or profit. They may lose direction and their future ahead becomes vague.
Besides drawbacks, we cannot deny the benefits that love brings to students. When having a partner, students will not feel lonely and have more goals to strive for. This helps them to become more and more perfect in their lifestyles and ways of thinking. Living away from home, students’ lives are full of deprivations and difficulties. It would be nice if there is someone who always cares, shares, and encourages them to try harder. Moreover, their partners could remind them every time they lose their direction. In studying, two lovers can help each other in learning activities. They could help in group work activities, go to lectures together, and participate in social activities together. Those moments will always be beautiful memories in the days of their youth.
Getting into university, students are free for the first time in their independent lives, ready to experience and explore the whole new world. In that process, if not having one (or several) love affairs, they may not gain complete experience. However, you shouldn’t rush to follow the trend and lose your youth with those who don’t deserve it. Love itself is not to blame as long as you are knowledgeable enough to choose for yourself a suitable lover. If you do, that love will be beautiful. A good lover will encourage you when you are bored with studying because it is good for both of you. If you already have such a person, then congratulations, just love while you can.
